What if money didn't mean anything to you? What if there was no significance as to why you needed money or what you needed money for....and what if you could just have it for the fun of it.....
Whenever we create anything as significant...it stops the possibility from occuring.
So if you are making money significant....your precious that you suffocate....
You may want to stop drop and roll....
After all...it is just a choice!!
Coming up....12 calls over the next 12 months for the space, creativity, and JOY of creation with and for money.... if you had more money than god, how much fun would that be for you?
Did you know You can get paid for BEING You?
What do you love to do so much, you would do it all day for free? What is so easy for you to do, you think it has no value? What would it take for you to do that and get paid?
I know, I know, sounds crazy, Right?! Most of us have been told all our lives how hard we have to work to earn money. How many of us function from that place? I know, I grew up thinking I had to prove through my work that I could receive money, but what if that’s a lie?
Ready for the wedgie?! What if you could get paid for BEING? What is that you love to do? Maybe it's chatting with friends, maybe it's fishing, maybe it's reading books, whatever it is, what would your life be like if you could get paid for that? So, let's play with that, whatever it is. If you were doing “that”, how much would you like to receive for it? We can take it a step further and ask what would it create in other people’s lives? How much would they be willing to pay for that? Play with the energies of that, what lights you up, is what resonates with you.
If YOU were BEING YOU, how much money would you like to receive?
What Would It Take To Out Create?
Would you like to step it up a notch? Would you like to become the wealth of your BEING, you truly BE? Ready to Create MORE?
When I find myself in a place where I'm ready to create more, I function from the question :
What would it take to create more money than I've ever made in my life? The trick to this is finding the question that resonates with YOU! Play with asking questions and find the one that LIGHTS YOU UP! You'll know you've asked a question that resonates, when your body lights up, that can be a smile or body tingles or excitement or ALL OF IT!
There is no right or wrong way of doing this. Start where you are, if asking a question of what it would take to make a million dollars today, doesn't move you, that's ok. Maybe ask what would it take for me to out create what I made yesterday or ever?
Pay attention to all the magical and miraculous ways that what you've asked for shows up. I wonder how much YOU can out create YOU today?
How much ease could it be to receive?
How much are you looking to create? What would create wealth in your life? How easy could it be to get it? Have you asked?
Step one: Ask for it!
Ok, maybe that’s not step one. First things first, you need clarity on what exactly it is you are looking to create. Whether it be money, a relationship, health, whatever it is, you gotta get clear on it. For me that meant taking out pen and paper and writing out EXACTLY what it was I would like in my life. I wrote everything, from mortgage to access classes to clothes, everything! That gave me an EXACT number to play with.
And now we can play! Are you ready? Ask over and over, everyday- What would it take to create (fill in the blank)? Some months I’d make what the exact amount I asked for or more because I had asked the universe for it and the universe delivered with ease. Now for the tip: Check your blind spots, where are you NOT asking the universe for what you require? Ask the universe to show you all the places that can contribute to what you are asking for.
Remember, ask and you shall receive. Ask away, all day, every day or when it feels light for you. Pay attention to what shows up! Have you started asking yet?
Does this still have value for me?
What will it take to create the life of your dreams?
Are you willing to show up to your dream life?
Does everything in your life have value?
I had to take an honest look at my life and ask if what I was currently doing was truly serving what I was looking to create in my life. I was overworked, broke and a new mom. I knew that continuing to walk down this road was NOT going to lead me to where I wanted, who I wanted to BE. I began to function from the question: What in my life has value to me?
I began by looking around my home and de-cluttering. If I didn’t totally love something, if it didn’t light me up, I either gave it away, donated it, sold it or threw it out. You can start in your closet, with shoes, in the garage or in your car. Look at the things you are surrounded by everyday. Here’s the tip: Ask whatever it is you are looking at 'Do you want me to keep you? Will you make me money?' Sometimes when something is going to make you money, it may not be exactly how you think. Selling it is the obvious way of course. What else is possible? I’ve played with this tool: gifting people whom have more money than me one of these items, one that has value to them.
P.S. This isn’t only about the things in your life! Take a look at the people in your life as well. I’m probably the only one that has had people in my life that aren’t a contribution right?! Ha! If your gut reaction when a person calls you is -UGH, I don’t want to talk to them or you avoid certain people because you feel so drained after interacting with them, that is your cue to clear ’em out. What if everything and everyone in your life could be a contribution to you? I wonder what that would create, don’t you?
Would you like more money in your life? Would you like to create a different possibility with your wealth? What if money could be easy?
The energy of having money and being grateful for what you have and also being grateful for what others have can create a whole new way of looking at creating more wealth and abundance in your life.
If you want a new car, look at all the cars on the road and find the ones that light you up. When you say "I'll have it" you are celebrating the wealth and magic everywhere and the universe will begin to pay attention. And deliver the energies that you keep asking for.
Pay attention and celebrate what starts to come into your life.
What if you could have the magic of money now?
I remember it as if it was yesterday. I was a new mom. My son had just turned 2 months old. I was getting dressed and looking at myself in the mirror. And then it happened.... I started on that all too familiar conversation with myself in the mirror
I remember it as if it was yesterday. I was a new mom. My son had just turned 2 months old. I was getting dressed and looking at myself in the mirror. And then it happened.... I started on that all too familiar conversation with myself in the mirror. I started to find absolutely everything wrong about my body....I couldn't fit into my skinny jeans, my boobs were lopsided, my stomach was hanging over, I didn't like my ankles or thighs, did I have more wrinkles, I wish I was thinner (for pete sake.....I just had a baby and my body was still healing). And then it happened...I looked over and saw my son on the floor and he was beaming at me with all the joy, and magic, and gratitude and adoration he had. This little being was adoring me. And in that moment.....A light bulb went on! Live on Voice America with Dr. Lisa Cooney today at 11am MST! Want to join us for more about this conversation? (Link at bottom of blog) http://ift.tt/2f6lcUN
November 01, 2016 at 09:04AM
I remember it as if it was yesterday. I was a new mom. My son had just turned 2 months old. I was getting dressed and looking at myself in the mirror. And then it happened....
I started on that all too familiar conversation with myself in the mirror. I started to find absolutely everything wrong about my body....I couldn't fit into my skinny jeans, my boobs were lopsided, my stomach was hanging over, I didn't like my ankles or thighs, did I have more wrinkles, I wish I was thinner (for pete sake.....I just had a baby and my body was still healing). And then it happened...I looked over and saw my son on the floor and he was beaming at me with all the joy, and magic, and gratitude and adoration he had. This little being was adoring me.
And in that moment.....A light bulb went on!
If I just spent 5 minutes missing out on receiving that what else am I missing out on because I'm more interested in judging the crap out of my body, thinking I'm not pretty enough, skinny enough, thin enough.
I spent 20 years of my life hating my body, trying every fad diet and exercise gimmick and infomercial gadget you could think of. I bought it hook line and sinker....
And every time I thought...
"This is it"
This time I'm going to get in shape, I'm going to eat all the right foods, I'm going to go to the gym, take care of my body, not over eat. This time things will change.
The feeling of being fed up enough would force me to dive full force into my new plan.....and it would last a few hours, a few days, and if I was lucky a few weeks (but those were far and few between).
And then life would set in and I'd be back to judging the crap out of myself, my body, my thighs...I never quite felt comfortable in my clothes and I was always worrying about what people thought about my butt. Was it cute enough, was I skinny enough, could they see the cellulite through my clothes?
And after 20 years, nothing changed. I still secretly felt like crap about my body.
And so on that fateful day with the light bulb moment where I realized that I was probably missing out on a lot of things I didn't even realize....
I made a decision to STOP....no matter WHAT.....I wasn't allowed to Judge myself......for an entire year!
Something HAD TO CHANGE!!
So began my journey of what I now call the No Judgment Diet.....A journey into a different possibility.
That year changed my life. I ate whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted...and I enjoyed it...like totally orgasmically indulged in the flavors, the sensations, the joy of food. And funny thing, what I gravitated towards eating totally changed. I started to have more joy, and I realized I stopped planning my life around food, meals, time, etc.
I started creating my life based on the space. You see when I made a demand to stop judging myself no matter what...I wasn't allowed to look in the mirror and create a judgment...
In fact every time I did I had to stop myself and think of something generative to say about myself and my body....I'd pick things that at the time were believe...
I'd say things like:
You have a pretty smile. I like your freckles. You have beautiful eyes.....and that was about it...then I started to say....you're an awesome athlete. I am glad you're strong. You birthed a baby at home....
Eventually, over time, I was able to start to find other areas on my body that I could be grateful for and believe it (there was no faking it til I made it....I tried that...and it never worked)
10 months had gone by and I realized that I had spent the majority of my life missing out on so many amazing possibilities because I was too busy making sure that I knew how not pretty, skinny, cute I was.
I realized when I wasn't busy judging the size of my thighs, or the backs of my legs, or the shape of my boobs, that i had all this space to create my life.
I built a six figure business in less than 10 months while nursing an infant. It was then that i took a huge breath and enveloped myself in the gratitude.
Gratitude for my life, my creations, my tenacity, my strength, my vulnerability, and my courage.....and dare I say gratitude for my body.
When I stopped judging me then I could truly begin to love the skin I was in.
Not only did I create an international business, but I had also created a body that I was proud of.
Judgment and making a choice to stop judging you, your body, or your size is a choice. When you stop judging you, then you can begin to follow your awareness of what's actually true for you.
Life has a whole new meaning and I truly believe that when women (and men) stop judging themselves, their bodies, their weight, their finances, then they can create a life and living that is full of joy, gratitude, and possibilities.
If you'd like to join me for a conversation about how letting go of judgment can create your life and living, I'll be live on Voice America - The Beyond Abuse Revolution with Dr. Lisa Cooney.
Join me and Dr. Lisa November 1st at 11am MST
What would it be like if you stopped abusing you?
Is there something in your life that you've struggled to change and no matter what you do, how much money you spend trying to fix it, it still never truly changes?
You might temporarily feel better, have a sense of space and ease, and then all of the sudden you find yourself back in the emotional roller coaster of the pain and suffering of thinking something must be wrong with you.....
And no matter what you do......
Still hangs over your head?
It's like being locked in a cage with no way out....
There is nothing worse than feeling defeated by your own suffering and having NO FREAKING CLUE how to change it.
After 20 years of working with the unconscious and subconscious, what I've discovered is that most of the people who have tried to change it, struggle to actually access the root of the original wound. You see, almost always, the wound is not tangible, nor explainable....you can't find it by talking about it, and any attempt to find it with the logical mind is a limitation that gets disguised in dancing around the topic rather than going underneath it.
It's a crazy cycle that most people either secretly or not so secretly suffer from. And the worst part is that most people have no idea how to access the unconscious in order to change it.
I've discovered an unlikely culprit......
If I asked you what are the things you think are screwed up about you what would you say?
Would you give me a laundry list of things wrong with you? Judgeable offences that you think are real?
On the contrary...If I asked you to share 5 brilliant things about you?....would it be easy for you to come up with 5 things?
Most of us have spent our lives functioning on the notion that we need fixing. But what if that just wasn't true?
For 20 years I battled with a self-esteem issue. You wouldn't know it by looking at me,
but I thought it was obvious.....
I hated my body!! I thought I was fat, ugly, and all around horrid. I mean really!
I can see now how completely absurd that was....but in my mind...I was convinced there was something dreadfully wrong with me!!
What I've discovered over the years, thanks to the tools of Access Consciousness....There is NOTHING wrong with me!!
And there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!!
If you would like to get out of the wrongness of you and stop judging yourself, your body, and your life....
Here is an excerpt from an e-book I wrote on the 10 steps to creating a better relationship with your body........Enjoy!!!
You are an amazing being. Your body is this vibrant, alive, living, breathing gift. You are only given one body in this lifetime. Your body truly desires to contribute to you. Most of us were raised thinking our body is a problem, or that it needs to be controlled. We aren’t taught that our body desires to contribute to us. We aren’t taught to believe that our body is our biggest ally and it actually desires to create your life as ease, joy, & glory. We aren’t taught our bodies want to gift us the energy of possibility.
Below are 10 keys to play with, follow, experiment with, and explore how to create a different, more ease filled relationship with you and your body. A lot of these tools come from 20 years of working with bodies, teaching classes, and exploring avenues for the body from many different forms, including my extensive studies in a masters in Somatic Psychology as well as knowledge passed down from Gary Douglas and Dain Heer, the founders of Access Consciousness. The gift that these tools have been to me have changed my life. I went from being anorexic, bulimic, and troubled with my body most of my adult life to truly loving the skin I’m in. I never thought it was possible, but thanks to the tools and questions in this book, I have changed the one thing I thought I couldn’t……. to change my body, or the way I saw my body.
I studied to get my master’s in Somatic Psychology, I went to therapy, was in and out of eating disorder clinics, tried every diet you could think of, studied Shamanism, did over 100 soul retrievals and past life regressions. I tried dancing it out, talking it out, doing reiki, hypnotism, massage, energy work, body talk, therapy, mud baths, cleanses, colonics, and although some of the above created a deeper sense of self, at the end of the day, I still felt like something was wrong with my body (and me).
When I found the tools of Access Consciousness, I didn’t think it was possible to truly LOVE my body, to no longer see it as a problem, and to no longer judge it as a wrongness. I thought it would be impossible...like no way in a million years could I change this…..
And yet, one day, the deep seeded wrongness disappeared and I started to truly LOVE my body. Is it perfect, no? Do I love sugar and ice cream? YES. Do I let myself have chocolate and bacon? Yes. And I also love greens, I love vegetables, I love tea, I love lemon water. I love to move my body and exercise and play outdoors.
I have such deep gratitude to Gary Douglas and Dain Heer for their tenacity of spirit, for their willingness to share these tools with the world, and for their patience, gratitude, and gifts they have shared with me and thousands of people all over the world.
May you enjoy the journey of a different possibility.
Step #1 Go On a Date with Your Body!
If you would like a FREE Copy of the 10 Steps to Change Your Relationship With Your Body, stop shaming, blaming, and guilting yourself into thinking you're not good enough, then GO HERE for your FREE COPY! My Gift to you!!
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Katherine McIntosh is a fierce creator that believes anything is possible...dreams really do come true, and if it's inside of you, you have the capacity to actualize it!!!